a lot of people under estimate how important it is to be able to be alone. people who are uncomfortable being alone try to surround themselves with others constantly to avoid it. but it isn't something you should avoid, it is something that maybe you should find a way to enjoy. we're all alone in the end, and there is nothing wrong with that. your own company should be something you enjoy, not just for yourself but for the people you care about. we juggle many relationships in our daily lives, but for me at least the most difficult relationship is the one with myself. i'm harder on myself than i am on others. i am meaner to myself, and frankly i don't think i am a good friend to myself at all. i really do think that i should be able to be my own best friend, and we all should. we're the better when we're better to ourselves; more honest, more open, and more content. it may not seem like the most important thing to focus on, but all of us have one relationship in our lives that will always be the most substantial and the longest; and that is with ourselves. we should make sure its a good one.
we are always too busy thinking about what we're not rather than what we are. we spend most of our energy obsessing over all the things we don't have and can't do, we forget to be grateful for what's right in front of us. we should always be nice to people, because everyone is fighting a battle; very similar to ours. we are all different in many ways but at the end of the day we are all the same. we deal with the same issues and struggle with the same feelings. so next time your feeling alone remember, that even if we're all alone... at least we're all together in being alone.